Officiant.
Educator.
Guide.
I write and officiate wedding ceremonies for couples who want every word to be true, every moment to be theirs, and every person in that room to feel it.
Book a Vibe Check callI didn't find this work.
It found me.
I grew up in Catholic school in small-town Massachusetts. This means great penmanship, solid grammar, and a lingering suspicion that there was more to spirituality than what I'd been handed. So I went looking. My 20s were a deep dive into the spiritual, the psychological, the philosophical. I read everything. I questioned everything. I came out the other side with what I can only describe as a spiritually flexible point of view — and a genuine fascination with what people believe and why.
"I wanted a ceremony that reflected who we actually were. I didn't know of any officiant who did that — so I wrote it myself."
In 2009, I wrote my first ceremony for my own wedding. I wanted something that honored the eclectic, non-religious, deeply intentional nature of our relationship. When I couldn't find an officiant who could do that, I wrote the ceremony and handed it to a friend with a one-day license. Several of our guests pulled me aside that day and said you should do this.
What started as a favor became a calling. Over the years I've been in the room for hundreds of weddings... from courthouse signings to elaborate celebrations, from deeply spiritual ceremonies to wonderfully nerdy ones. I became a certified transformational life coach because I kept seeing the same opportunity in every engagement: this is one of the most powerful containers for self-discovery a person will ever step into, and most couples don't even know it.
I've been a bride myself — twice, actually. I know what it feels like to stand at that altar. I know what it takes to get there with your whole heart present. That's what I'm here to help you do.
As seen on Love is Blind · Netflix · Season 10
My whole philosophy is that not one unclear, undecided person should stand at that altar. That conviction was put to the test on national television — see how it turned out.
Watch on Netflix →Three kinds of couples.
One guiding philosophy.
Every couple I work with is different — but they all share one thing: they want their ceremony to actually mean something. Here's where most people find themselves.
Just make it official.
You need it done right, done fast, and done with care. No fuss, no drama — just a professional who shows up, makes it legal, and makes it feel real.
Make it yours.
You want a ceremony that sounds like no one else's — because it isn't. You're a little eclectic, a little deep, and you need an officiant who can keep up with your vision.
Go all in.
You've built an extraordinary life by doing the work. You're ready to bring that same intention to your marriage — from the ceremony to the vows to understanding each other at a deeper level.
It starts with a
Vibe Check.
A relaxed 45–60 minute conversation. No pressure, no pitch. We just talk — and we both decide if it's a good fit.
You book.
Pick a time that works for you. One click, no back-and-forth.
We connect.
You share your vision. I tell you how I work. We see if we click.
You decide.
No pressure. If it's right, we both know it — and we get started.
