You just got engaged - Congratulations!
The love and connection you experience with your spouse is unlike any other relationship you will ever have. It differs from parents and children because you choose each other, from the moment you meet, to every single day of your marriage, you will continue to choose each other, over anything else. This relationship can be one of the most potent and powerful forces you will ever experience in your lifetime - inspiring you to do your best in the name of love.
I want to invite you to use this engagement opportunity to connect with your best friend in a way that you never have before, and together you will create a foundation for the AMAZING marriage you deserve.
Some folks have access to pre-marital planning or counseling through their church or pastor. But, for those of you who are planning a secular, interfaith, or alternative wedding experience, like the folks I work with as a Wedding Officiant, you may not have access to the type of support you would like.
I work with couples who want a pre-marital guidance program that is not affiliated with any particular faith or religion, but tailored to your unique relationship and individual viewpoints, so you can create a solid foundation for marriage in a way that is custom designed for you.
We're in love! Why would we want this?
All great adventures require a bit of planning to go off smoothly. And yet still, all great adventures have a bump or two in the road.
As humans, we are often wonderful, loving, generous creatures and when things click, pure magic is made with our love. The romantic moments and the warm and fuzzy goodness that comes from us when inspired by love is life altering stuff.
Despite best intentions, however, sometimes you will miss the mark with each other (eek! It happens, we're human!). You will hurt each other's feelings, you will act out, you will behave selfishly sometimes. All of this is normal. If you get annoyed or angry with each other, it doesn't mean that you picked the wrong partner. It just means you're human.
The good news is that there are ways that we can have conversations now, that help you understand how each other thinks and behaves when stressed, what each other needs for support, and how each other experiences love - it's different for each of us. This deep understanding will allow you to withstand the bumps in the road far better than if you head out unprepared.
You will learn how you solve a problem together, how to connect intimately in a world that is constantly distracting us, how to effectively communicate when you do NOT want to talk about something, and how to have a shared vision without totally sacrificing your individual identity.
What does this look like?
First, you'll take a brief assessment, which will explore :
We connect for a 2 Hour Video Call where I will:
Then, I will custom design a dynamic strategy session that will include:
We decide how to move forward:
How much does it cost- and what do I get?
The Pre-Marital Strategy Session is $250.
What you get:
What you REALLY get:
What you get:
- Highlights of the SYMBIS personalized report which helps you to understand your unique qualities & dynamics
- 2 Hours of fire-starter discussion and laser coaching to blast through potential roadblocks and trail blaze future paths.
- A Personalized kit of tools you can use in your unique marriage to gain clarity and establish connection when necessary
What you REALLY get:
- A 30% less chance of divorce.
- The ULTIMATE chance to create a deep foundation of intimacy and trust.
- An opportunity to understand your spouse's inner world.
- The insight and tools to resolve conflict with much more teamwork and much less drama.
- The potential to experience a 31% increase in overall marriage satisfaction.