Most couples do not come to our consults with many questions in mind, and as a result, may settle for something they don’t want because they did not know what they did not know. 

Don't be most couples.  

Your officiant is one of the most VITAL roles in your wedding day because they are the one standing RIGHT THERE with you as you cross the threshold into married life.  Do not settle for someone you don't know, like, or trust. 

In order to find out if you know, like and trust them, you have to ask some questions and feel them out as they respond.

Here are just a few options for questions to bring to the conversation: 
 

1. Who are you as a professional and what sets you apart from other officiants?
2. How did you get started in this work?
3. What services do you offer? 
   • Do you have a standard ceremony you use for everyone, pick and choose style ceremonies, or do you write custom ceremonies?
   • Do you offer premarital coaching or counseling?
   • Do you offer any other special services I may not know about? 
4. Where is your service area? How far will you travel?
5. What are your favorite types of couples to work with?
6. How does the process of collaborating with you work?

Depending on the officiant, there may be a structure to your consultation or it may be free flow, either way, pay attention as you move through the conversation and don’t be afraid to ask what comes to mind. 

This is an important role in your day and it’s important for you to feel comfortable with this person.

Now, if you are reading this and you have yet to hire your wedding officiant - please do yourself a favor and download the How to Find & Hire Your Wedding Officiant cheatsheet right now, so you can be on your way to hiring the perfect officiant to hold space for you and your beloved as you cross the threshold into married life together. 

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Finding the perfect vendors for your wedding day is no small feat, and it can be tempting to just hire the first person you meet with and be done with it. 

I encourage couples to be thoughtful about who they hire for their Wedding Officiant because this person is holding space for you and your beloved as you step into married life - you want to be sure it’s a great personality fit, not to mention that they are responsible for the legality of your marriage.

Ultimately, using my Free Cheatsheet, How to Find & Hire Your Wedding Officiant will take you from not knowing where to even find an officiant, to interviewing and booking your favorite one. 

Let me tease you with a few major essentials to keep in mind: 

1. Vibe - make sure you are looking at their website and reviews to see that this person will feel good to be around and work with. 

2.  Values - make sure this person accepts and respects your core values, so that they can accurately reflect you and your relationship in your wedding ceremony. 

3. Validation - make sure you are seeking validation that this person is a professional and legit. 


Now, if you are reading this and you have yet to hire your wedding officiant - please do yourself a favor and download the How to Find & Hire Your Wedding Officiant cheatsheet right now, so you can be on your way to hiring the perfect officiant to hold space for you and your beloved as you cross the threshold into married life together. 

If you have any questions about hiring your wedding officiant, don't hesitate to email me at weddings@amyfaurore.com and ask. I check all of my own emails and I love hearing from you.  

Talk soon!

“Oh, I thought you were a wedding PLANNER!”

As a Wedding Officiant of ten years, I hear this line - A LOT.

Many engaged couples have no idea what a wedding officiant does, how they do it, and what to expect from them.  
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Once upon a time, the officiant role was only performed by clergy or sometimes a judge.  Many modern couples, however, are planning their weddings at venues instead of churches, and as a result, must hire for a professional service that is offered by many different types of officiants.  This shift from clergy to professional service allows for customized ceremony offerings in a way that wasn’t possible before.

What is a wedding officiant and what do they do?

A wedding officiant is someone who has been granted authority to authorize a marriage by signing the Marriage License.  Some officiants are ordained by religious institutions and others consider themselves secular or civil officiants.  Every state has different rules and regulations about who is allowed to perform these duties.  Make sure your officiant is legal or your marriage won’t be!

The primary responsibilities of the wedding officiant are basic but very important.  

1. They must confirm consent. 
2. They must sign the marriage license/certificate. 
3. They MAY have to mail the marriage license to the officials (depends on county).​

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What your wedding officiant does beyond this will vary depending on their service model.  Some will offer very basic license signing services and others offer comprehensive packages that may include any of the following, plus additional unique services that reflect their background or brand.

• Consult and collaborate on the ceremony.
• Write a partially/fully customized ceremony.
• Provide premarital coaching.
• Conduct the rehearsal.
• Officiate the ceremony. 
• Follow up with the records department. 
• Provide name change guidance.

As you reflect on the optional services, consider what it is you would like to have your officiant do for you and what you are happy with forgoing or doing yourself.  
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